Golf requires what the Buddhists call impeccability, which is
essentially keeping the crossbar high, very high, throughout one’s
career and life. You can’t separate out life, career, family, marriage.
Nor can you blithely commit transgressions in life and then demand
absolution, ala the Gringrich who stole Christmas. There are actions we
take. There are consequences arising from those actions. Whether those
actions be criminal or moral in nature, there are consequences, and we
must make adjustments to compensate for those consequences. We humans
are clever at devising ways to forgive, but rarely do we forget, and
it’s the forgetting that is the cornerstone of true forgiving. Forgiving
without forgetting is like eating without digesting: What goes out
looks a lot like what went in.
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